There is good and bad. Many believe that the humans' purpose is to choose one of those, and lead life with it.
Humans are very complex creatures. We have certain corners within that surprise, intimidate and terrify even ourselves. The key is self-awareness. Learning to balance out the good and the bad wisely.
The same is with being indecisive. You can't create a resolve that being so, is bad or good.
It is how you look at it. Being indecisive means beung uncertain. Which means wanting more time. There are two cases here:
Either you have the time, in which case you are comfortaed, but that shouldn't mean underestimating the importance of making the decision. It's still there. So don't slack on the ground of having the luxury of time.
Or, you cannot afford more time. And you are still indecisive. And it's causing you panic stress and anxiety and feelings that make your inner-productive-hustler uncomfortable. Then, you must take a step back my friend, because the solution is right within you.
The only reason you haven't noticed it, is because perhaps you're too consumed with the rules presently at hand.
Turn to your intuition.
It won't be "I don't know!" Because you're indecisive over important situations, and those situations more often than not, do not require careful thought and logic. They require knowing. They require instinct.
It cancels out any uncertainty because it doesn't reckon, or think. It knows.
When you decide to turn to that corner of yourself, it's quiet. You can breathe. And your next thought after that step back, will be the truth.
Go beyond the excuses you make up or that are injected in you by others. Beyond the judgment, of others AND of yourself. Don't channel your past as a standard to what you should want now. It doesn't matter. That's all gone and you came out of all of it in one piece. It's done and you learned from it. Turn the page. What matters is NOW and what your intuition tells you is next for you.
Do what you REALLY want. You probably feel like you don't have the slightest clue of what that is, but you do. Long moments of soft relaxation, deep breath, they'll guide you to inner-clarity and your intuition will slap your frightened uncertainty in the face, because all along... it knew.
Trust yourself. It knows the way. Regardless of whether or not you've lost it before.
